Friday, January 30, 2009

Tukang Roti dan Petani

gtalk archive January 30, 2009
Thanks to Pak Budi Kus..

Tukang Roti dan Petani

Seorang tukang roti di sebuah desa kecil membeli satu kilogram mentega dari seorang petani.
Ia curiga bahwa mentega yang dibelinya tidakbenar-benar seberat satu kilogram.
Beberapa kali ia menimbang mentega itu, dan benar, berat mentega itu tidak penuh satu kilogram. Yakinlah ia, bahwa petani itu telah melakukan kecurangan.

Ia melaporkan pada hakim, dan petani itu dimajukan kesidang pengadilan. Pada saat sidang, hakim berkata pada petani,"Tentu kau mempunyai timbangan?""Tidak, tuan hakim," jawab petani."Lalu, bagaimana kau bisa menimbang mentega yang kaujual itu?" tanya hakim. Petani itu menjawab, "Ah, itu mudah sekali dijelaskan, tuan hakim. Untuk menimbang mentega seberat satu kilogram itu, sebagai penyeimbang, aku gunakan saja roti seberat satu kilogram yang aku beli dari tukang roti itu".

Ternyata roti yang dijual tukang roti itupun beratnya kurang dari 1 kg dan tukang roti itupun harus berhadapan dengan hakim.

Smiley...! Cukup banyak contoh, kekesalan kita pada orang lain berasal dari sikap kita sendiri pada oranglain.

Dilarang nyanyi!

Tadi malem, ada celotehan Rifa yang bikin hati tergelitik.
Gini ceritanya:

Saat kita lagi duduk-duduk santai, Rifa yang memang hobinya nyanyi bersenandung kecil.. tapi tiba-tiba berhenti dan bilang begini:

Rifa: Pa, Ma, aku kalo mo nyanyi, temen-temenku selalu ngelarang..
Mama: Lho, kenapa ko dilarang..? (lumayan bertanduk juga nih, emang kenapa dilarang? )
Rifa: Iya, ga tau kenapa deh Ma. Tapi pasti aku dibilang ga boleh nyanyi.
Mama: Temen-temennya siapa sih? (kebayangnya sih anak2 sekitar rumah yang biasa main sama Rifa)
Rifa: Itu Ma.. Ni luh.. (dan dia mulai menyebutkan nama temen2 sekelasnya)
Mama: Lho.. maksudnya Rifa nyanyinya di kelas, gitu?
Rifa: Iya, mereka tuh suka larang aku nyanyi terus bilang ke bu guru deh: Bu Guru.. nih Rifa nyanyi niiii...
Mama: !???!!!

hahahhaa... ya iya lah dilarang, nyanyinya di kelas dan bukan di jam pelajaran menyanyi. Jelas mengganggu yang lain belajar dong...

Dasar Rifa.. mbok ya hobi tuh liat-liat tempat Nak... :))))

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Share: Indicators of Stroke




Kutipan dari email seorang teman:


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"Blood Clots/Stroke
They Now Have a Fourth Indicator, the Tongue.

STROKE:Remember the 1st Three Letters....S.T.R.

My nurse friend sent this and encouraged me to post it and spread the world. I agree.If everyone can remember something this simple, we could save some folks. Seriously...Please read:

STROKE IDENTIFICATION:During a BBQ, a friend stumbled and took a little fall - she assured everyone that she was fine (they offered to call paramedics) .she said she had just tripped over a brick because of her new shoes.They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of food. While she appeared a bit shaken up, Ingrid went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening Ingrid's husband called later telling everyone that his wife had been taken to the hospital - (at 6:00 pm Ingrid passed away.) She had suffered a stroke at the BBQ. Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps Ingrid would be with us today. Some don't die. they end up in a helpless, hopeless condition instead.It only takes a minute to read this...

A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke....totally. He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed, and then getting the patient medically cared for within 3 hours, which is tough.

RECOGNIZING A STROKE. Thank God for the sense to remember the '3' steps, STR . Read and Learn!Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster. The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke.

Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:
S --> *Ask the individual to SMILE.
T --> *Ask the person to TALK and SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently)(i.e. It is sunny out today)
R --> *Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS.

If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call emergency number immediately and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.

New Sign of a Stroke

Stick out Your Tongue

NOTE: Another 'sign' of a stroke is this: Ask the person to 'stick' out his tongue.. If the tongue is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the other,that is also an indication of a stroke.

A cardiologist says if everyone who gets this e-mail sends it to 10 people; you can bet that at least one life will be saved. I have done my part. Have you?

( Terjemahan by Arnem/Ary Batubara: intinya kita harus tahu kapan orang yang kita peduli kena stroke, karena kalau kita tahu dalam tempo 3 jam HARUS dibawa ke dokter. Dokter yang tahu akan dapat meNORMALkan pasien asalkan dalam waktu 3 jam. Di ilustrasi diatas selagi Barbeque pagi seorang teman tiba2 jatuh...ternyata dia kena stroke tapi orang2 tidak tahu...jam 6 sore dia meninggal....
OK ada 4 tanda orang kena Stroke:
1. SENYUM....minta orang tsb untuk SENYUM/SMILE
2. BICARA.....minta orang tsb untuk BICARA kalimat lengkap.
Contoh: Pagi2 brenang dikali malang
3. ANGKAT 2 TANGAN...minta orang tsb meng
ANGKAT 2 TANGAN
kalau ada yang dia tidak bisa lakukan SEGERA bawa ke dokter yang mengerti....

ada satu lagi yang merupakan tanda stroke (baru):
4. LIHAT LIDAH...minta orang tsb menjulurkan lidahnya....kalau lidah itu TIDAK LURUS dan BENGKOK ke satu sisi itu adalah indikasi STROKE...


Seorang Ahli Jantung berkata, bila orang yang dapat email ini me-forwardkan pesan ini ke 10 orang--> SATU orang akan terselamatkan)


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Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rajiun...

Sebuah peristiwa duka hari ini menyadarkan dan mengingatkanku..
ingat lima perkara sebelum lima perkara:
1. masa mudamu sebelum tua,
2. masa sehatmu sebelum sakit,
3. masa lapangmu sebelum sibuk;
4. masa beradamu (kaya) sebelum jatuh miskin; dan
5. masa hidupmu sebelum mati.
Khususon Bapak Syaiful Rachman, teriring pembacaan Surat Al-Fatihah dan doa kepada almarhum :
"Allaahummaghfir lahu warhamhu wa ’aafihi wa’fu ’anhu wa akrim nuzulahu wa wassi’ madkhalahu wa taqabbal hasanaatihi wa kaffir sayyi-aatihi birahmatika ya arhamarraahimin. "

Ya Allah ampuni dosanya, kasihanilah dan sejahterakanlah ia, maafkanlah kesalahannya, lapangkanlah alam kuburnya, terimalah kebaikannya, hapuskanlah kesalahannya dengan rahmat-Mu, ya Allah Tuhan yang Maha Pengasih.

Friday, January 23, 2009

what's wrong with me..?

Aneh... Mengherankan... Mengejutkan...Menakutkan

Belakangan kenapa Mama sangat 'berantakan' ya Kak, De ...
Kenapa Mama sering 'bermasalah' dengan ATM?
Seperti bingung dan linglung..
padahal tidak dalam keadaan terburu-buru ataupun panik

Beberapa bulan lalu, Mama mengambil uang di ATM, memasukkan bukti penarikan dan kartu ATM, tapi lupa mengambil uangnya..!
Beberapa minggu lalu, Mama mengambil uang di ATM, memasukkan bukti penarikan dan uang, tapi lupa mengambil kartu ATMnya..!
Dan nampaknya kemarin, hal yang sama terjadi lagi. Mama mengambil uang di ATM, memasukkan bukti penarikan dan kartu ATM, tapi lupa mengambil uangnya..!!
Masya Allah...

Kenapa ini, ko sepertinya semua terjadi diluar kesadaran. Sepertinya semua sudah dengan baik dan hati-hati dilakukan tapi ternyata hal yang sama terjadi lagi?!?!

Keledai saja tidak akan melakukan hal yang bodoh 2 x di ATM.. huhuhuhu ..

Astaghfirullah..
Semoga kejadian kemarin adalah kejadian yang terakhir. Semoga ini adalah cara Allah untuk mengingatkan hamba-Nya untuk lebih banyak bersyukur dan beramal ibadah. Semoga Allah mengganti kehilangan ini dengan limpahan rahmat dan rejeki yang datang secara tak terduga pula... Amiin..

Monday, January 12, 2009

What do you think of it

DISAPPOINTED.

That's what i'm feeling about something that happened on Friday. Even it happened a couple days ago, i'm still feeling it.
Tell me what do you think about friendship, when somebody who call u friend, even a best friend indeed, either intentionally or unintentionally keep something from your back, with no reasonable reason.. and when you finally found out on what she did, she admitted and acted as if there's nothing wrong with it.. In fact, it contrary to what she said before that she did nothing about it.

A friend in need is a friend indeed.

It's so hard to find such a person like that.

I dont really want to blame somebody for being a 'cheap' friend, in fact deep in my heart, I ask my self:
"Am I really a good friend of somebody else?"

No answer, but dissapointed for the second time...

-Mama-

Friday, January 09, 2009

New thought of mine


Phiuuuhh... ive just realized that the details of my and my family's life is not for public consumption.. hehe.. perhaps it sounds 'lebay' or something. But that's my thought, anyone can be disagree or agree - but noone can tell me that is a wrong idea... (yup, dont u ever dare to say that! hik hik)

However, i decide to keep my blog's accounts in blogspot and multiply. Why .. ?

Becoz, I still love them as media to complete my day (well, i dont want to spend my time only for some boring routinity from 6am to 6 pm), to share about something that in my opinion are interesting to be shared and memorized, and to put my personal opinion and feeling of course. What else? Hmm.. still need time to think of it :)

I dont expect somebody else to catch up with every details on it, but hopefully Rifa and Alya, my beloved children, one day, will know a lot better about his/her mom's activity, opinion and feeling while her away from home to fulfill her obligation as a working mom.

Love you all dear..

-Mama-